as Kind as one might treat strangers

I resolve to treat my boyfriend as kindly and with regard to his feelings as I might treat complete strangers. I resolve to not take him for granted..thinking he will always be there so why try harder?..I resolve to always think of him as a human being first and a boyfriend second. My boyfriend is not just a player in the story of Ravy, my boyfriend is his own person and I will always be cognizant of that. This man has proven to me that he can be trusted...totally. I am going to learn to trust my boyfriend, totally. Some women may say..oh that's not right...but I don't want to live my life with cynicism. I want to believe that some people can be totally trusted. I've made that commitment myself, I want to believe that others can do this too. I was going to say "if".....I don't want to believe in that "if" even. This is me today. March 25/2009.